I told her I didn't want to do it during this retrograde lol and she wants to make it a double, so we have to plan ahead for her & her hubby's work schedule. Right now, we're considering a date where the Moon is in Cancer and another where the moon is in Libra. The guy is a solar Cancer & venusian Cancer, whereas I'm a lunar Libra and my venus is in Libra, so I would think those dates would work well. I've never paid attention to the moon's sign (bc it changes so much), but now I'm super curious as it how much it can affect.