Received two different readings...need clarity!

[cutet]

Hi,

I am very new to astrology and I am very intrigued by it. I recently entered two other blogs asking about the future of the relationship I am currently in, but I received two difference answers. One response was that we were great together, the other said we aren't.

We will be moving in together soon, and plan to get married eventually. Can someone provide me with insight on whether or not we are compatible? Will we struggle financially forever (we are now)? Have I met the "right" one?

Here are our vitals:

Me- August 11, 1986, born in Baton Rouge, LA (USA), at 6:33pm
Him- December 26, 1986, born in New Orleans, LA (USA), at 5:03am

Any advice would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!

- Cutet

 

[Northstar]

The interpretation depends on the knowledge and ability of the one doing the Reading. Here is my input on the relationship.
After looking at both charts there is some compatibility between the two of you, but Your personal styles, taste, preferred leisure activities are not often in harmony, and you need to make adjustments and allowance for one another's personal tastes and desires.
As far as money goes, his money will be slow coming but it will happen!! Are you willing to carry the burden of finance for a while? Your best route for earning money is through something related to the health field.

Northstar

 

[cutet]

Thanks for your quick response!

We have had a few ups and downs lately; when things are good, they're great, but when they're bad, the earth moves. I've learned a lot from this relationship, but I want to know if the ups and downs are worth it. Will this be the extent of our relationship? Will it eventually mellow out with maturity, or will the occasional flares continue?

Also, we felt a very strong connection when we first met. It was very spiritual and magnetic, is this explainable? Or merely infatuation?

cutuet

 

[Modcleopatra]

Cutet,

Would you please be so kind as to upload your chart?

Here is the link:

http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=12126

When you upload the chart, people will feel more encouraged to respond to you.

ModC

 

[cutet]

Yes, sorry about that.

Here are our charts

 

[cutet]

I'm not exactly sure what to take from this since all of my readings having been so distinctively different. We are in the midst of moving in together, and we talk about marriage often. Yikes...our ups and downs aren't as bad as described rahu's post :-/

cutet

 

[Deep House Astrologer]

Cutet You said the His birthday is December 26th 1986? but the chart You posted was dated 1984. Is his birthday in 1984 or 1986? I am only asking for clarity . I apologize if it seems that I am splitting hairs. A 2 Year differential makes all the difference.

 

[cutet]

My apologies, he was born in 1984. I hope this changes rahu's post.

 

[rahu]

the new composite has aspect which are characteristic of serious relationships.the sun sextile to the moon and trine to jupiter shows a respectful supportive and caring relationship.by itself it canshow a very good friendship.with sun semi square to venus and venus conjunct uranus,there is both a immediate emotional attraction and growing attraction the more you get to know each other.
the venus/sun midpoint is square to jupiter so thereis a impulse to draw closer.
the moon/sun midpoint is conjunct saturn which shows a feeling of deep devotion and the moon/saturn midpoint is conjunct venus which again shows a devoted and serious intent .

but mars is square to pluto and opposed to orcus.this is a strongly sexual aspect but it also is very selfish by nature.the problem here is that,though the chart shows several aspects of devoted bonding,the pluto/mars aspect can show total disregard for emotional bonding and love as long as the sexual appetite is satisfied. with the mars/pluto midpoint conjunct the moon/venus midpoint, it is likely you will experience the feeling that emotinal bonding and love are subservient to purely carnal desires.again this adds to the sexual potentcy but in the long run decreases the pure love.with so many aspect of devotion,this may not become apparent for awhile.

with eris on the descendant,square to the venus/jupiter midpoint,there is a very possesive/jealous feeling.with the mars/uranus midpoint square the ascendant,he is marked as a very independent person and it may be that all this devotion and jealousy may rub his need of freedom the wrong way.

the devotion is clear but there are sundry aspects of resistance to close bonding.

you say you are in the midst of moving in together.but he may have second thoughts in august.though if he is sincere i would think september would be the date you move in together.

rahu

though the venus/uranus midpoint is square to jupiter,the sun/uranus midpoint is conjunct the venus/sun midpoint and also square jupiter.this is a two edged sword as it increases the electricity betwee you but is also destablizes the relationship.the sun/uranus square to jupiter bodes ill for a lasting long term relationship

 

[cutet]

Thanks for the corrected rahu and sorry for the typo.

It seems as if the relationship is a little contradictory. I see hints of this at times, but overall the relationship has been very positive. I guess I will ride it out until the wheels fall off. Hopefully it wont be too damaging.

If anyone else sees any additional info, please feel free to add.

cutet