Hmm.. maybe you were finding scorpios that were on the “Scorpion” side and not the “eagle” side
There are three levels of scorpio: 1. Scorpion (to give you the sting) 2. Phoenix (to be reborn) and 3. Eagle (to spiritually soar.)
It is no coincidence that pluto rules scorpio!
I’m not saying that you are picking bad women, just that younger females have a tough time in todays world, especially scorpio… scorpio is moreso about spirituality than sex.. and.. We are living in a dark, dark place right now… where women think it is okay to objectify themselves (which in turn amplifies their own ego and weakens the ego of their male counterpart)… and it takes some time for women to learn that. Trust me I've been there lol.
But your pluto symbolism is all about sticking up for the underdog through mental determination and spreading love to others. And with your north node there in the house of love & relationships. How heavy. I think you will end up finding success.
This is exactly the case. There are different level of Scorpions. I think Guy should take a look of the nature of Scorpio in multiple levels.
I also have very positive sense that your Pluto in 7th house with North node will turn out much positively later in life. Which is why I shared the real example of how Pluto in 7th house retrograde, later in life, will experience the greatest transformation through partnership and even through business contact as meeting powerful people that are the better level of Scorpions.