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Lily1983

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I presented my business plan to my father’s connection for my start up and he even signed an NDA in 2022.

At first he acted really interested and said we will do this together and he would help me. A month later he started acting disinterested and was even asking me to ask another person to help me.

Fast forward a year later and I found out he copied my business plan to make his own company with two other men. One is a PHD professor with environmental patents and another is a CEO of a manufacturing company.

My father confronted him about copying me and he claimed it’s not the same which it isn’t yet, but it’s similar!

This year he joined an ESG leadership short course for CEOs at a top university and was elected chairman for their alumni year. He even submitted press releases in Korea about how he wants to contribute with everyone THROUGH him.

He has my detailed business plan that was supposed to help the UNSDGs as a non-profit and now I feel like he’s using it for his own fame seeking behaviour and greed.

He always wants to be seen as the CEO or chairman and I didn’t know he was like that at first because he acted so nice.

My father’s other connection said this man is all talk as he fell for the trap too where he hired him but he didn’t achieve any sales. I was also told this man did the said to another person who hired him and achieved no sales either. It sounds like this man is a con artist?

I’m asking horary, is he cheating me? I hope I’m just paranoid and he’s not using my detailed business plan as his own.

Also does this horary show if he will succeed? I’m so upset and I can’t get this betrayal out of my mind.

In Korea, women are discriminated in the workplace. Only 5% are CEOs and this awful man used my extensive research for his own narcissistic needs.
 

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I presented my business plan to my father’s connection for my start up and he even signed an NDA in 2022.

At first he acted really interested and said we will do this together and he would help me. A month later he started acting disinterested and was even asking me to ask another person to help me.

Fast forward a year later and I found out he copied my business plan to make his own company with two other men. One is a PHD professor with environmental patents and another is a CEO of a manufacturing company.

My father confronted him about copying me and he claimed it’s not the same which it isn’t yet, but it’s similar!

This year he joined an ESG leadership short course for CEOs at a top university and was elected chairman for their alumni year. He even submitted press releases in Korea about how he wants to contribute with everyone THROUGH him.

He has my detailed business plan that was supposed to help the UNSDGs as a non-profit and now I feel like he’s using it for his own fame seeking behaviour and greed.

He always wants to be seen as the CEO or chairman and I didn’t know he was like that at first because he acted so nice.

My father’s other connection said this man is all talk as he fell for the trap too where he hired him but he didn’t achieve any sales. I was also told this man did the said to another person who hired him and achieved no sales either. It sounds like this man is a con artist?

I’m asking horary, is he cheating me? I hope I’m just paranoid and he’s not using my detailed business plan as his own.

Also does this horary show if he will succeed? I’m so upset and I can’t get this betrayal out of my mind.

In Korea, women are discriminated in the workplace. Only 5% are CEOs and this awful man used my extensive research for his own narcissistic needs.
Dear hello!
I am impressed by the chart because it seems to reflect the entire situation that you describe to us.
let me explain:
The ascendant in the last degrees shows us that the situation has been completed, has been done.
You as Jupiter retrograde and in weakness in the sixth house shows us your mental and physical condition that is not good. Take care of your health too.
This Jupiter with anti-shadow has just left with opposition from Venus in your first house. Venus here represents the project, entrepreneurship, your plan, but it is also the second derivative from your father's house = his finances. It shows us that this collaboration (Venus) did not finally happen (opposition) for financial reasons (2nd derivative) ...

If you see your Father = Mars, it is in your 8th house (secretly and underground) in Leo, selfishness and individualism, but also the cusp of the 4th house shows the same (Aries) and with antishadow it falls on the sky and in your 5th house (2nd derivative from the 4th house = finances). This Mars will soon turn retrograde.

Antishadow always works in an underground and secret way.
Then I see this Mercury (a very bad Mercury) in your 12th house. There are people and associates who operate secretly and underground, behind your back. Mercury is the natural signifier of thieves, cunning and deceit.

But soon you will learn the truth and what is at stake.

Because the Sun (light) will enter your 12th house, will be in Sagittarius (i.e. it loves Jupiter You) and will illuminate all the secrets that are played behind your back.
this Mercury will turn retrograde and will oppose you but will also be burned by the Sun soon. Where Jupiter (you) is, you are in the 3rd derivative of your father (communication) and confrontation (opposition) for work issues (6th)

Chiron on the cusp of your 4th house shows us your traumatic experience, the pain you have within your family environment.

Capricorn is all contained and Saturn is on the cusp of your 3rd house and you have Neptune inside and the Moon will be in opposition to it. So we see disappointment and deception.

Jupiter will come at some point in the right direction and you will be able to regain your strength and move forward.
 
Thank you for your detailed reply! Do you see any success for this man who is my father’s business connection and cheated me or will he get burned by the sun? What do you see will happen to him? The traumatic experience from my family this year has given me trust issues and I looked back at these past few years to see that it’s not just my brother and his wife that cheated me, it’s also my father’s business connection who claimed “we are family.” I feel very foolish.
 
In horary astrology, the seventh house is associated with false impression or partnership discord and the tenth house with career and/or public persona. Some aspects could be between your Moon, the symbol of your emotions, and another planet, such as Mercury, Mars, Neptune revealing aspects of misunderstanding, rivalry, or secrecy. But, according to fine points in particular placements of planets and their sign lords in the chart. The results would depend upon the 10th house ruler and aspects in respect of him. It is, therefore, advisable to book a reading with a professional astrologer.​
 
Thank you. I want to see a professional astrologer when I can afford it. I have so many questions about my natal chart and transits. I’m just looking for reassurance as I am suffering from anxiety and can’t stop thinking about this. My father told me to try and put it out of my mind as there’s nothing I can do about it.
 
Ever thought of sending out copy's of your research, plans ánd the NDA to every news-outlet in Korea or at least the ones that carried this criminal's press-release?
Then also to the UN, every major environmental organization in the world and a phonecall to miss Thunberg.

As it stands you feel like loosing, worked for nothing. Then you have the option left to freely share and fight for (your own) justice that way.
When it is a good study and plan, maybe someone in the outside world picks up on it, sees your value.

That is not unheard of as a strategy and in line with the Ascendant- ruler Jupiter in the sixth house of self-empowerment opposing the Mercury in the twelfth where your studious work is being mis-used to your detriment.
Mercury rules the Virgo-ninth, a really well thought out plan in the twelfth of environmental issues. Though the 12th also speaks of self-undoing.

Admittedly that's a bit of an aggressive tactic and answer from my part, also choosing sides, leaving the astrological objectify. With everything you shared in the last months you deserve a huge break in my opinion.
 
This man is a "partner" as well as an "open enemy" to you, so he is the 7th house, mercury.
He is in your 12th house, hiding, acting behind your back and doing things you are not aware of.
He squares neptune in the 3rd house, he says one thing and does another against you.
Moon completes this T-square from the 9th house, law and ethics which are being violated.
Moon is also his co-significator, intercepted in the 7th house. Moon is in the sign of mercury.
Neptune squares the ascendent and descendent, showing the relationship is based on deception
Your work is 6th house, also ruled by him, mercury. He has in fact taken it over.
The Part of Fraud is at 21 Aries, trine him, mercury.
So, yes, he has everything tied up and in his hands.
This is the answer to your question.
You are jupiter, retrograde and weak by sign. Out of your sign and regretting what you did in trusting him.
At the same time, he as mercury is in your sign, sagittarius, so he actually depends on you.
In reality if you had not trusted in him and told your plan to him, he would be no where.
Your career, which is the 10th, is ruled by venus in the ascendent, in its own triplicity and in the terms of your significator jupiter. This is actually encouraging.
The Part of Fortune of the chart is at 18 libra, exactly on the Midheaven and exactly trine jupiter, your significator.
Very good.
The Part of Legal Contracts (which includes the NDA) is at 13 scorpio. your 11th house, and trine saturn, your co-significator as well as sextile venus, ruler of your Midheaven
This is the path to follow, enforce this contract he signed.
Today is the International Day Against Violence Against Women, and this is a violence, even though it is not physical.
Good luck to you, and next time you will be more aware before trusting.
 
Update: I sent him an email to say that I saw his website and articles and I confronted him about signing an NDA and he needs to be honest with me.

I’m thinking about meeting with the UNSDGs office to release my business plan publicly so everyone can use it.
 
someone mentioned that it showed me confronting him about this in my horary chart. Any guesses to the outcome of this? I will update.
 
Update: it appears he ignored my email after I politely but firmly reminded him that he signed an NDA which is still active.

I still feel very hurt. This year so many people have let me down.
 
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