Is she suitable for me?

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socrates

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Hi

Is she suitable for me?

I had some reservations about wether this girl is a suitable partner for me,but to my surprise the chart suggests we are a partnership made in heaven. Mercury and Jupiter are in exact trine.
However they' re not in the ideal houses. Mercury isn't far from the 8th cusp and Jupiter is in 12th. She's a foreign Basketball player who moved in 3 months ago,which fits the symbolism of the 12th of exile.
I haven't met her yet but am trying to find the best place and timing. I dont want to chat her up in the street.
Do you see any cons in the chart?
I noticed I'm in her fall. Does she despise me?
 

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In this chart, Jupiter and Mercury are actually in more ideal houses, since these planets are little bit farther than the limit of influence of the 12th house cusp to the 11th house and the 8th house cusp's influence to the 7th house, which I consider bad if the distance of planets to the next house cusps are only below 5 degrees, but the distance between 12th house and Jupiter, 8th house and Mercury is above 5 degrees, so you and your new girlfriend is really a couple from heaven, it seems.
 
The moon is void-of-the-course in the 5th house of casual love affairs.

Thinking of her as a prospective partner seems premature.

If you really wish to know if you're compatible I recommend checking out your synastry, which is based on your birth charts.
 
what about jupiter hating capricorn,where my ruler is? Is mutual reception important. ?
 
I have Jupiter in Capricorn natally. The idea that Jupiter "hates" Capricorn is way too extreme. Traditionally Jupiter falls in Capricorn. That restrains Jupiter's expression. But you have to look at how planets are aspected. Mutual reception is beneficial but not essential.

This is only a horary question, a chart of the moment. The moon is VOC. You might not even meet her. If you really want to know if you're compatible, synastry where you compare your two birth charts, is preferable.
 
I have Jupiter in Capricorn natally. The idea that Jupiter "hates" Capricorn is way too extreme. Traditionally Jupiter falls in Capricorn. That restrains Jupiter's expression. But you have to look at how planets are aspected. Mutual reception is beneficial but not essential.

This is only a horary question, a chart of the moment. The moon is VOC. You might not even meet her. If you really want to know if you're compatible, synastry where you compare your two birth charts, is preferable.
In a facebook forum.im told moons next aspect is to saturn( proihbition) though its a trine and then venus in scorpio. Incidentally shes a scorpio born 17 nov 1998
As for synastry her scorpio planets are ok with my sun mars venus in capricorn but not so well with my mercury saturn and jupiter in aquarius in the 9th house. I dont know if she has venus at 29 scorpio or 0 sagitarius,depends on birthtime. In sagitarius it would be in my 7th cuso
 

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Jupiter is averse to Capricorn; to my mind in horary that implies more than restraint of expression.

Moon being void of course here undermines the whole question, suggesting that nothing will come of the matter as it stands right now.
In horary, if Jupiter is a significator, normally I would suggest that the person (or matter inquired about) is not in a strong position. To say that Jupiter "hates" Capricorn is over-the-top. I note that it's Mercury in Capricorn here, not Jupiter. But neither planet looks particularly robust.

Socrates, we judge a moon to be void-of-the-course if it has made its last major aspect before changing signs. There are signs in which William Lilly, the granddaddy of horary astrology, said that a VOC moon wouldn't negate the outcome. I don't think Libra was among them. But the Mercury-Jupiter trine looks promising.

A rule of horary is that you can ask a question only once-- by any means of divination.

Time to relax about this?

Please let us know what happens.
 
In horary, if Jupiter is a significator, normally I would suggest that the person (or matter inquired about) is not in a strong position. To say that Jupiter "hates" Capricorn is over-the-top. I note that it's Mercury in Capricorn here, not Jupiter. But neither planet looks particularly robust.

Socrates, we judge a moon to be void-of-the-course if it has made its last major aspect before changing signs. There are signs in which William Lilly, the granddaddy of horary astrology, said that a VOC moon wouldn't negate the outcome. I don't think Libra was among them. But the Mercury-Jupiter trine looks promising.

A rule of horary is that you can ask a question only once-- by any means of divination.

Time to relax about this?

Please let us know what happens.
well,i havent seen her for a few days and I asked if shes still here. the 7th ruler was in 9th indicating she left the team or maybe went home for christmas.Friday the 22nd they have a match so Ill know by then.
Maybe thats why the moon was void.
Interestingly I was surprised the chart was match made in heaven,cause she seemed like a blonde bimbo to me,but when I found a video where shes interviewed in the US at age 21,I realised the chart was right. She looked down to earth and level headed,so it wasnt just her body that was interesting after all.Ill let you know about developments
 
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Should I chat her up later near her home when shes walking her dog?
I asked this question in the afternoon but couldnt post it.
Although the chart shows harmony betwen me and her the moons next aspect is a trine a weak venus folliwed at once by a square to Mars. Did I do well not chatting her up?

Interesting that the harmony remains but meeting her is a struggle
 

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Did you chat her up yesterday afternoon?
In any case I would say it was favorable (trine) for a very small and continued opening again ( both planets retrograde) between you. This is based on your significators receiving each other lightly by decanate/face.
Moon, as the unfolding of the question, favorably applies to trine benefic Venus in its detriment in Scorp. If we treat you as Moon and her as Venus, then she is not feeling so good herself with Venus in detriment. And you/Moon feel uneasy about her since she is in the sign of your/Moon’s fall.
BUT, Venus does receive you/ Moon by exaltation. So there is something in her that likes you a lot.

Now this last part about her being Venus may all be cockamamy (nonsense). But if it is not, and it may not be, then what it suggests to me, along with the rest of the chart, is that you need to go very slow and easy with her, small interactions, not too many, and over some period of time. Quit attaching so much meaning to each of these interactions (especially about what you think it means about you) and just gently and with great and kind patience toward her and you and the whole process, continue to cultivate a connection with her.
No matter how it turns out, you will learn some important things about yourself. And based it might just work out. 😊
 
Did you chat her up yesterday afternoon?
In any case I would say it was favorable (trine) for a very small and continued opening again ( both planets retrograde) between you. This is based on your significators receiving each other lightly by decanate/face.
Moon, as the unfolding of the question, favorably applies to trine benefic Venus in its detriment in Scorp. If we treat you as Moon and her as Venus, then she is not feeling so good herself with Venus in detriment. And you/Moon feel uneasy about her since she is in the sign of your/Moon’s fall.
BUT, Venus does receive you/ Moon by exaltation. So there is something in her that likes you a lot.

Now this last part about her being Venus may all be cockamamy (nonsense). But if it is not, and it may not be, then what it suggests to me, along with the rest of the chart, is that you need to go very slow and easy with her, small interactions, not too many, and over some period of time. Quit attaching so much meaning to each of these interactions (especially about what you think it means about you) and just gently and with great and kind patience toward her and you and the whole process, continue to cultivate a connection with her.
No matter how it turns out, you will learn some important things about yourself. And based it might just work out. 😊
thanks.
No,i was thinking of chatting her up this evening but the chart didnt look too good because of that mars . Its 8pm here,i asked the question around 4pm and she walks her dog at 6pm. Im doing what you say,taking it easy and try to find appropriate time and place to meet her.
 
Im assuming you've met on social media w/ her in the 11th house? But Mercury rx and Jupiter rx may be trine but are only in each other's face by mutual reception, which suggests only a tolerance to each other, or a scraping the barrel, as in there is no one better.
 
Im assuming you've met on social media w/ her in the 11th house? But Mercury rx and Jupiter rx may be trine but are only in each other's face by mutual reception, which suggests only a tolerance to each other, or a scraping the barrel, as in there is no one better.
we havent met yet. see the OP . im trying to meet her. I found out shes a basketball player from the US who is playing here a season or more
 
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thanks.
No,i was thinking of chatting her up this evening but the chart didnt look too good because of that mars . Its 8pm here,i asked the question around 4pm and she walks her dog at 6pm. Im doing what you say,taking it easy and try to find appropriate time and place to meet her.
chris warnock seems to ignore MR in relationships

 
If the chart shows we are compatible why is the Moon void suggesting we won't meet. Is it because of me hesitating?
 
Mercury is in the fall of Jupiter (her) - she's bad for you

You're in the 7th, you're caught up by her and interested in her, but this is ultimately bad for you. Whatever comes from this may not be good. There will be damage, but maybe not as terrible as it may seem. Jupiter is in the exaltation of the Moon - she will probably receive your advances well. But the reception is between signs that are in quincunx. There doesn't seem to be anything indicating that things will actually come to fruition at surface level. Moon is also conjunct Spica, so there might be a chance encounter that happens out of nowhere and as if destiny wants you to be together. Alternatively, you could get help from other areas: meet someone else that is wonderful suddenly and be satisfied beyond expectations.
 
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