Situation

[parapa]

Hey. I was interested to know about this horary, it's about a girl i'm dating, but our "relationship" is mostly based on sex. We've had conversations about fantasies, and one of them was to include another person in the sexual act, so she told me no, because she refuses to do it.
At this horary is it possible to see if she would really would like it or was sincere?

 

[parapa]

I will appreciate the help

 

[waybread]

You two (Mars and Venus) are not connecting. The moon is void of the course, suggesting the current situation is unlikely to change.

Please don't pressure her. "No" means no. Sex has to be consensual.

 

[IleneK]

In addition to the lack of connection by aspect that waybread describes, you as Venus exalt her, while she as Mars receives you by much lesser dignity, by term.
This suggests that you can trust that she means what she says, that it needs to be on her terms.

 

[waybread]

I think, too, there's a problem in using astrology for this type of question. No -- I'm not moralizing about what 3 consenting adults choose to do with their bodies. That's not the issue.

It's more that the GF's "no" is not respected, so there's a backhanded hope that astrology will somehow show that she's lying.

I wouldn't go there, parapa.

 

[parapa]

Thanks for your comments, i really appreciate it.
I want to give a little more context. We had previously had conversations of this type, we had both talked about what we imagined doing this, even she had already thought about it, until after a while she began to take a different position on the matter. Of course the "no" is respected
and i am new to astrology, i apologize if it is not good to use Astrology for these matters