Will he fall in love with me/leave his wife ?

[jc4844]

I know many of you will all judge me and I'm sorry this is unethical to some people. Will he fall in love with me and leave his wife to be with me? I'm seeing this guy who is in an ENM marriage (ethical non-monogamy) who wants a sexually monogamous relationship with someone with similar interests who is not his wife (she is also open to other partners), They are in love and have a good marriage. Today I met him and I was blown away and am insanely attracted to him. I almost fell in love immediately. This is very bad for me. I am considering seeing him again because I felt so connected. I know I will get a lot of moral/ethical judgements but please let's just stick to the horary chart, My judgement is NO, he will not fall in love with me or leave his wife. Here is why:
-I am Venus in detriment and ruled by Mars so clearly love him. I am Moon in Mercury and recieve Mars in term and face, and in my house of values. And Venus is in his 12th house/my house of illness.
-He is Mars in detriment as well in H3/H9 in Cancer. He likes me emotionally and OK as Venus.
-He is Sun in Libra, he recieves Venus in dignity. He really is attracted to me.
-The first aspect Mars makes is a trine to Saturn. I take Saturn as his wife. This is a prohibition.
-Then Venus trines Moon (myself) so I get some sense.
-Sun squares Moon (him and me) and then Mars trines Venus (him and me) which looks like a yes, but it is prohibited by Moon and Saturn.
Mars sextiles AC- he likes hte situation or it suits him.
Venus squares MC- it suits me less.
Sun trines MC- again, it suits him.
Verdict: NO. Saturn prohibits. He will not fall in love with me. He likes me and is attracted to me. Sun at 1 degree shows a new phase being ruled by me, becuase we jjust met. Same as Venus, at 1 degree, we just met.
What do you guys think?
Please help me, and don;t judge me.

 

[Oddity]

In traditional natal, I would look at Saturn, Venus, and the sun for a woman's marriage. I tried looking at this chart that way, and as you saw yourself, nothing good is perfecting there - save Venus will eventually trine Saturn while Saturn is in Venus's exaltation. Not the strongest testimony, I'd want to see something more.
And as you noted, Venus-Mars (1-7) and the moon aren’t doing anything helpful either.
It doesn't look like he's your guy. And I don’t like seeing you - Venus - in a sign that depresses you.
So yes, I think you're correct in your assessment.

 

[Sunrise]

I would agree with all of the above, just a few additional ones:
Venus = you, in its 12th derivation (hidden, afflictions, suffering), and I also see a Mercury and the Sun in the 12th house as well. He probably hides more than you think.

 

[aqualovebot]

Are there kids involved?

 

[jc4844]

Yes they have an open marriage and a new child.

Are there kids involved?

 

[summerbreeze]

Again, the answer is no. He won’t leave his wife to be with you. Once more, you are Venus in a very bad position, in his 12th house, near the first one. It's almost like stalking. You remind me a bit of the woman from Fatal Attraction, sorry. He is interested in what the Moon represents, and I don't mean you, but rather his 10th house, which could be his job or his marriage. If we also take the Sun as his secondary significator, it is in the sign of Venus, but it is also in the sign of Saturn's exaltation, yet still in its fall. Even if he showed interest in Venus, it wouldn't be sincere interest in her, but a search for instant gratification, if you know what I mean. Or he is interested in everything what Venus represents - generally. Besides, Mercury is very close to the Sun, so I think he is already sexually involved with someone. I think he is attracted to his wife, if we take her as Saturn, bad feels angry/bad/down because of her. Again, I think your relationships are driven by feverish obsession. You, as Venus, have just come out of a very difficult square with retrograde Pluto in your 10th house, and I repeat, as I did in the previous chart, that you strongly tie the concept of a relationship with social status. For some reason, you need this, probably to feel worthy. But something isn’t right. You are not thinking in a healthy or rational way, neither regarding this chart nor the at least ten horary questions you’ve asked here in the last ten days — for different people. You ignore every piece of advice people here give you, sorry.

 

[jc4844]

Again, the answer is no. He won’t leave his wife to be with you. Once more, you are Venus in a very bad position, in his 12th house, near the first one. It's almost like stalking. You remind me a bit of the woman from Fatal Attraction, sorry. He is interested in what the Moon represents, and I don't mean you, but rather his 10th house, which could be his job or his marriage. If we also take the Sun as his secondary significator, it is in the sign of Venus, but it is also in the sign of Saturn's exaltation, yet still in its fall. Even if he showed interest in Venus, it wouldn't be sincere interest in her, but a search for instant gratification, if you know what I mean. Or he is interested in everything what Venus represents - generally. Besides, Mercury is very close to the Sun, so I think he is already sexually involved with someone. I think he is attracted to his wife, if we take her as Saturn, bad feels angry/bad/down because of her. Again, I think your relationships are driven by feverish obsession. You, as Venus, have just come out of a very difficult square with retrograde Pluto in your 10th house, and I repeat, as I did in the previous chart, that you strongly tie the concept of a relationship with social status. For some reason, you need this, probably to feel worthy. But something isn’t right. You are not thinking in a healthy or rational way, neither regarding this chart nor the at least ten horary questions you’ve asked here in the last ten days — for different people. You ignore every piece of advice people here give you, sorry.

Wow! Thank you so much for your kind, empowering, affirming words that you took so much time to write and express, you've really made an impact I appreciate the time and effort you've taken to read this chart. I will continue posting charts about things with instant outcomes like break ups and men I date, because I choose to use practice my skills this way and I learn something from every one of my charts. If ever, someone actually read my analysis and critiqued that dispassionately, I would find it a much better use of time. But carry on with your judgements (of things outside the charts). Love, Fatal Attraction Crazy Girl (as named by another woman.... the misogyny doesn't stray far does it?)

 

[jc4844]

Again, the answer is no. He won’t leave his wife to be with you. Once more, you are Venus in a very bad position, in his 12th house, near the first one. It's almost like stalking. You remind me a bit of the woman from Fatal Attraction, sorry. He is interested in what the Moon represents, and I don't mean you, but rather his 10th house, which could be his job or his marriage. If we also take the Sun as his secondary significator, it is in the sign of Venus, but it is also in the sign of Saturn's exaltation, yet still in its fall. Even if he showed interest in Venus, it wouldn't be sincere interest in her, but a search for instant gratification, if you know what I mean. Or he is interested in everything what Venus represents - generally. Besides, Mercury is very close to the Sun, so I think he is already sexually involved with someone. I think he is attracted to his wife, if we take her as Saturn, bad feels angry/bad/down because of her. Again, I think your relationships are driven by feverish obsession. You, as Venus, have just come out of a very difficult square with retrograde Pluto in your 10th house, and I repeat, as I did in the previous chart, that you strongly tie the concept of a relationship with social status. For some reason, you need this, probably to feel worthy. But something isn’t right. You are not thinking in a healthy or rational way, neither regarding this chart nor the at least ten horary questions you’ve asked here in the last ten days — for different people. You ignore every piece of advice people here give you, sorry.

Ignoring the NO verdicts I come up with MYSELF.... reading comprehension so questionable.

 

[IleneK]

You may not like the judgements, jc4844, and I understand that. But summerbreeze's chart analysis is pretty spot on.

 

[summerbreeze]

Thank you, IleneK

 

[summerbreeze]

Wow! Thank you so much for your kind, empowering, affirming words that you took so much time to write and express, you've really made an impact I appreciate the time and effort you've taken to read this chart. I will continue posting charts about things with instant outcomes like break ups and men I date, because I choose to use practice my skills this way and I learn something from every one of my charts. If ever, someone actually read my analysis and critiqued that dispassionately, I would find it a much better use of time. But carry on with your judgements (of things outside the charts). Love, Fatal Attraction Crazy Girl (as named by another woman.... the misogyny doesn't stray far does it?)

You don't need empowerment or any kind of affirmation in this matter, you need a wake up call. And a clear, objective judgement. And maybe some kind of help, since you do struggle a lot - judging by your questions and the answers the chart provided. But this is a self inflicted struggle. And some things are needed to be said. I wish Bob Zemco would be here to give you a proper answer. Also, you do continue to post charts and I will continue to answer them. Also, regarding misogyny - what is to be said in the matter of misogyny about a woman who hopes a guy she just met would leave his wife, with whom he has a child, for her? You don't seem to be a girl's girl, do you? Also, numerous questions you post here are an abuse of people's time and their good will. And they are frivolous and kind of selfish, tbh.
Edit: the mod. is probably going to delete this because it's not astrology related, but you will see it.

 

[jc4844]

You don't need empowerment or any kind of affirmation in this matter, you need a wake up call. And a clear, objective judgement. And maybe some kind of help, since you do struggle a lot - judging by your questions and the answers the chart provided. But this is a self inflicted struggle. And some things are needed to be said. I wish Bob Zemco would be here to give you a proper answer. Also, you do continue to post charts and I will continue to answer them. Also, regarding misogyny - what is to be said in the matter of misogyny about a woman who hopes a guy she just met would leave his wife, with whom he has a child, for her? You don't seem to be a girl's girl, do you? Also, numerous questions you post here are an abuse of people's time and their good will. And they are frivolous and kind of selfish, tbh.
Edit: the mod. is probably going to delete this because it's not astrology related, but you will see it.

Update: I ended it with the guy due to better judgement. And sorry, I see no misogyny in love or its pursuit. So much for me being a "stalker" when I'm the one who ends it with half these guys, much thanks to horary helping me "wake up". Anyway, glad you'll continue to answer my charts. Must be a good use of your time. I hope you can learn some respect for others though, because you are borderline abusive in your language and harassing me.

 

[jc4844]

You may not like the judgements, jc4844, and I understand that. But summerbreeze's chart analysis is pretty spot on.

And I love her for the correct judgements I can leave the rest of what she brings to the table though.

 

[jc4844]

Ignoring the NO verdicts I come up with MYSELF.... reading comprehension so questionable.

And once again, DING DING DING, who calls the NO verdicts first and asks for confirmation of my reading being correct? ME. It's not my problem you people don't stick to the astrology and instead decide to harass and harangue me when anything I've done is innocently ask for a confirmation of my reading style.

 

[summerbreeze]

IWell, we can all be relieved for the guy, [snipped negative comment ]