Will I find someone this year? Should I keep dating? losing hope :(

[jc4844]

I am losing hope in the dating game (35F). Nothing is working out and I wonder if my luck will change if I keep trying to put myself out there or whether it's going to be futile. Here's the reading:

-I am Venus in dignity in cadent H6 of illness, not a strong place but at least I am dignified and strong.

-Venus is in mutual reception with Saturn RX in H11. Perhaps this means friends will play a part of my life in the next year. It's also the turned H5 of a potential partner. Venus recieves Saturn in mutual reception by exaltation. Perhaps this could be a suitor?

-Venus recieves Mars in detriment so I am percieving potential partner/relationship in a bad way. Venus also recieves Sun in fall so I am not liking men or am disappointed. This doesn't look good.

-I am Moon peregrine in Aquarius and recieve Mars in term and Sun in detriment. Again, emotionally I seem to be down on men or disappointed. Moon recieves Jupiter in term, and this might be relevant as Moon will make an aspect to Jupiter very soon in a little over 10 degrees.

-Venus trines Moon (this is just myself, so probably not relevant to the reading)

-Venus trines Jupiter at 0 units. Jupiter could be a suitor. Jupiter recieves Venus in term, but it is in detriment as itself and in my 1st house. Venus recieves Jupiter in term and face. So there is some mild reception. Someone is in a weak position liking me and looks like I might be involved with a Jupiter character.

-Mars, L7 is trining Saturn RX which shows there might be delays or obstacles.

-Sun and Mercury are both in H5, showing potential suitors to date at least.

Does it look like there's any hope for me to find a relationship if I keep dating?

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[jc4844]

@Sunrise @waybread Would love your thoughts on this.

 

[IleneK]

The primary actors in this chart are you as Venus and Moon, and then Mars is significator for this potential relationship that you are hoping for.

Venus is strong in its dignity, but weakened by being in the unfavorable 6th house.
Potential persons that you would date and into which you can place hope is Mars in its fall. So not a lot of strength there.

Venus separates from Mars right now and it aspects Mars by unfortunate square only much later, after Venus has changed signs and moved into its own detriment. So this does not point to a coming together as you might hope any time soon.
Mutual reception between Mars and Venus suggests that folks you meet may like you some as the person that you are, since Mars receives Venus by triplicity. But you will not like them since Venus in Lib receives Mars by detriment.

While Mars receives you as Moon by dignity, this scenario between Moon and Mars does not fare much better. Moon and Mars are disjunct, so this person and you will not see eye to eye.

A common element to me in all of this is that you as Moon and as Venus both apply to aspect Jup in its detriment. That is what right in front of you, that is what appears to be in the way right now.

Having Jup in Gem block like this suggests to me that it might be good to just step back, take a slow breath, give yourself a break, just for a while? This would allow for n opportunity to reflect upon your communication, conveyed and unspoken, that may not be serving your hopes [the Gemini part of Jup in Gem] and also to reconsider what your values are [with Jup in the second whole sign of your chart] and if those values are truly serving you and your greater well being. I think some thing or things may need to be kindly and gently let go of a bit, to release you from this turmoil in which your find yourself? You are not deserving of such ongoing stress and pressure, my friend.

 

[waybread]

Venus is domiciled, which should count for something, along with the moon's applying trines to Venus and Jupiter. There are many ways to read the 6th house, including being of service to people, volunteering, or health care.

Mars isn't cooperating, however.

This all makes me wonder if "dating" isn't the operative word. Are you in a situation where you might meet someone at work, through a volunteer job, or joining a club or organization? These are also venues where you might have more in common with someone you meet. So maybe take a dating holiday and consider other ways to meet someone.

 

[jc4844]

Thank you I have never dated intentionally before and it's definitely a time in my life where I want to and I'm ready to. It doesn't make the process easier living where I do where everyone dates a lot of people casually. I've spent many, many years single, celibate, avoiding intimacy, then going to therapy, working a lot and building my life, well being and career. I just started dating in May so it's been just a few months but it's been a rough ride. Nevertheless, even if I stop posting horary charts, I will likely continue to try my luck with dating even if I want to give up sometimes. My intention in posting horary charts about this part of my life is simply to read the chart without judgements on me or my life/choices and hope we stick to checking my interpretation to see if I am getting better as I am studying horary every day. My dating life is a good subject for me because the outcomes are usually immediate and I can verify my skills. It has been amazing how the predictions I have been able to make or seen people make have come true with accuracy in detail. Hope that makes more sense about me and my charts. Thank you for your help always <3 much love,