WOW....I have to say that I have never been so insulted in so many ways....catagorized...(and by the way that is a rule too...without a full chart it's an astrological sin to categorize by sun sign.....I believe)... merely by my revealing my sun sign......
After about a year of giving readings it IS possible to keep your personal biases and philosophies out of it. IF you believe it is your duty to your client to discuss them...and not proselytize regarding their own beliefs.
And HERE is the way to do it: when you sense ---and being very 8th house I am sensitive to my own biases and feelings and history regarding most areas of life - I stop the recording and I let the person know that I am digressing to tell them a personal position on a subject...or discuss other clients (anonymously) with their same issues....on let them know that at THAT time I am speaking personally...as an individual...
SO...then I put the recording back on and we continue with the reading.
And I let my students know that this is a VERY big issue...no matter what their experiences have been with this or that person's sun sign, it takes reading the entire chart to be objective....or at least as much as possible.
Perhaps it is a talent I have...I don't know...but the moment I feel the need to insert something personal I am aware of it.
I NEVER try to convince anyone that astrology is valid. If they come for a reading, they find out for themselves. If it resonates with them, then they come to their own conclusions.
If the person is "on the fence" I let them know that if they feel astrology could be helpful in their own lives then they should read a couple of books I always tell my new students to use. AND then they must begin trying to read charts of friends and relatives if that person is open to it. AND I always tell new students to ALWAYS let the person know they are BEGINNERS and their reading may only be 50% accurate. ANd that they are learning....they are students...not astrologers.
I studied for 8 years before taking my first fee.
When I am NOT accurate I always take the blame...and never blame the astrology. Because I believe astrology is a science and if we misinterpret it it is because humans make mistakes.
I ask the person where and how they found my reading incorrect and look further.
BUT....It is well to remember that because there is a Neptune and a Uranus not ALL readings can be 100% correct...nor do I feel we are "supposed" to be. People must find their own way to navigate their lives...which ARE limited...(because of Saturn and Pluto) to what I call the PARAMETERS of the breadth, length and depth of their particular charts/lives.
We have "free will " within those parameters.
Another rule should be: never be frightening or overly optimistic when giving a reading. Even tho MOST people have a natural
reticence to 'believe" what a stranger tells them, some people will believe anything ....because they believe astrology is an occult gift and like being a psychic. Always read the "middle" way...unless you feel the person is in imminent danger...
Usually the only time I give a real warning is when the person seriously wants a compatibility reading and it is obvious to me that the other person can be dangerous either to their physical, mental or emotional health. And that they are attracted mostly by chemistry and not compatibility.
I have said my piece. There are many other dos and don'ts for a person who wants to seriously read for others. But I will not be back on this thread because I don't "defend" myself as an astrologer. After over 40 years of successful readings, I don't need the approval of strangers who don't know me and to whom I have never given a reading.
LIN